Dependable Strengths – What was the Same?
May 26th, 2009 | Published in Dependable Strengths, Dress for Success, Workshops & Seminars
So what was the same? The power of Dependable Strengths to transform was evident by Day 2. In the sharing of “Good Experiences”, the long faces we had seen a day earlier had begun to relax – smiles and laughter replaced them. Friendships and mutual respect began to develop quickly, as is always the case when sharing Good Experiences. The program is so cleverly structured to allow space for personal reflection plus peer feedback and support. The latter component is so powerful – we are so hard on ourselves. Others almost always see us more positively than we see ourselves. Here’s how it felt for a few of our participants:
“Who cares about my weaknesses – I’m dynamite!”
“I learned, or had confirmed, that acknowledging my strengths is very empowering. The collective experience of the group shows that overcoming anything is possible. I found a new supportive community.”
One of the other things we noted, yet again, was these women’s depth of engagement and effort spent on creating their Dependable Strengths Reports. They brought each draft to us with such pride – bursting to hear our feedback. Trevor and I love to read these. Reading them is like watching an inspiring movie where the writer is the heroine. You somehow feel you know this person, in the space of one page. These reports are as heart-warming as the women who wrote them.
Another re-occurring phenomenon we saw with this group was the degree of risk-taking – in their self-disclosures, in trying out new ways of thinking, and in making new contacts in an unconventional way. There’s no going back once you’ve seen what’s on the other side.
It is a privilege for Trevor and I to witness the blossoming of self-esteem among our participants. This is why we do this work. This is why I brought Dependable Strengths to Canada.

So what was it like to learn how to deliver Steve’s life-changing work? In a word, intense. In another word, profound. The workshop took place in my home in Lions Bay, with the spectacular setting of the ocean and mountains of Howe Sound in the background… What a perfect environment in which to do the inner work required to get at the core of our “raison d’être”. We spent 10 ½ days in a row, 10 hours per day, dividing our time between playing the roles of participants for each other, and rookie facilitators.
We struggled to learn the material, wanting not only to do well, but also to do the content and the process justice. It was a fascinating and fully engaging experience. What struck us was not only the universality of this learning, but also the continuity of self-awareness work throughout one’s life. Having all been through the program as participants in the recent past, we continued to deepen our self-understanding, which paved the way for understanding each other at a deeper and more compassionate level.
n significance, competence, and openness, are the very things that when we risk exposing, bring us closer to one another. It is only through this level of self-understanding, risk-taking, and sharing, that we can connect with our Essence, show up in the world in the most authentic way, and create love in the world through a relentless pursuit of our Work Purpose.
My Work Purpose statement forms the foundation of my company mission statement:


